Judgmental world.

Have you ever thought about this. How everyone just judge every shit, actions you do and every words that you say. Seriously what is this world coming to?No matter your fat, thin, tall, short, young, old, smart or stupid, you still get criticized or discriminated against. Someone will still hate you, talk bad about you. 

Looks, you are born with it. Can you really blame someone for how they look? Yet this world is all based on looks. You are prettier/more handsome, you get more attention. You are ugly, nobody gives a shit about you. It is fair? 

Everyone wants to be skinny, who don't? And yet when ppl go on diets, others gossip. They would say: you siao ah? Rumor would spread and everyone would end up having a bad impression on that person. But really, what actually made them want to go on a diet? When they are fat, ppl look at them with disgust. When they go on diets, ppl start calling them crazy. All they want is just to look like those skinny ppl. They just want to try to blend in. If you were fat, always getting left out, frankly speaking, wouldn't you do the same? You would wouldn't you? So why the hell is ppl discriminating them? 

Or those ppl who put on makeup and ppl call them fake. Really, all they want is just to look good, to boost their confidence and self esteem. Who doesn't want to look better, to be prettier/handsomer? And yet people call them barbie dolls, say they want act pretty etc. 

Girls talk to guys or vice versa, and ppl start calling them flirts. So what does this means? Talking to an opp gender is prohibited? Is that it? They are just being friendly and outgoing and ppl start hating them. 

When you are smart, get good results, ppl still bitch about you. With good results, ppl tend to get complacent, who dont? Ppl would technically be happier and want others to know about their good results. And yet ppl start callin them boastful, action Kia. Than when those who get good results just keep quiet and not say anything, ppl say they act humble . Either ways also cannot, than what do you expect them to do? They have the rights to be happy. Or even if they really are boastful, are we really in any position to judge them? We are not inferior to them, they score good grades because of the effort that they put in, they get what they deserved. So since our grades are worst than their, what rights do we have to talk rot about them? 

And yet when ppl who are dumber than the rest, they get looked down upon. Ppl call them dumb and stupid. Have we ever thought about their feelings? How would you feel if others called you that. Not everyone is born with brains. 

Or those people who are a tad more emotional, ppl call them act emo Kia. They cry, and ppl call them attention seekers. Don't you find it ridiculous? What's wrong with crying. Everyone does it at least once. Ppl when sad, they would generally be quieter and colder to ppl around them, and yet others would say that: you sad very big meh? But technically, you can't expect them to be acting totally fine as they always are what. Emotions control ppl... They are already sad and yet ppl are rubbing salt in their wound. If you were the one instead how would you feel?

What the point of hating? Or talking rot about others? Where would that get you in life?would it even benefit you in the first place. We should just accept ppl for who they are, ESP if that person is your friend. You should try to change him/her for the better, instead of badmouthing about him/her. Accept his/her flaws, everyone is imperfect, and neither are you. If he/she is willing to accept your flaws, than why can't you accept his/hers ? Can you really call yourself a true friend is you actually gossip your friends back? Don't judge every actions that you see, because behind every action of someone is a story, or basically an emotion. We aren't in the person's shoes, we don't know what they are going through or feeling. Everyone's different. Either accept it, or just close one eye to it. Control your temper and try to put yourself in the other party's shoes. Isn't maintaining peace better than having misunderstands and quarrels everyday. Stop judging, it gets you nowhere, it only causes you misery and hatred.